A Friend

Birth date: Nov 11, 1988 Death date: Jan 4, 2016
Weaver, Patrick, 27, of Hasbrouck Heights, died suddenly on Jan. 4, 2016 at Hackensack UMC. Cherished son of Joanne and the late Bruce. Caring younger siblings, Grace and Jacob. Adored grandson of Veronica Konieczny and Warren Wea Read Obituary


I met Patrick years ago when we were both working as "pages" at the local library. He and I and the rest of the younger part-time staff quickly became very good friends, and we spent that summer laughing and hanging out and making memories that I will treasure for the rest of my life. Patrick was one of the most special people I've ever met. He was always there for me, whether I needed a laugh or a shoulder to cry on. I can't believe he's gone. This is a senseless loss with no explanation (I still catch myself thinking that this must be some kind of sick mistake--and I'll catch myself thinking that for a long time)--but I will cherish the memories I have of him forever. My deepest condolences go out to his family, friends, and loved ones. Patrick was and is loved, and he will be so, so missed.
Nicole Saldarriaga

I had the great pleasure of working with Patrick throughout all his years at the Hasbrouck Heights Library. He matured from a teenager into a wonderful young adult who took the time with all the patrons who needed his advice and with me, a sometimes technology challenged co-worker. His laid back demeanor made him a favorite assistant to many and he had many fans. His quiet charm, knowledge and levelheadness will be missed. My condolences to his family. May he forever rest in peace.
Dorothy Schlatterer
I knew Patrick only through the HH Library, and he was a treasure that I will deeply miss. He was always cheerful, helpful and considerate and went out of his way to share his thoughts about music that he thought I would be interested in, and went out of his way to point me towards all the new acquisitions. He was thoughtful to a fault. His great interest in Star Wars was evident in his having seen it three times in it's release week and encouraging me to see it in a theatre and not wait for DVD. It is not only hard to realize he is gone, it is so far impossible to overcome the sense of loss and sadness. My deepest condolences to his family and his many, many friends on this tragedy. May he rest in peace.